Hey guys! Welcome back. We all want to love and be loved but sometimes it feels as though we just can’t find that love. So today I wanted to talk about some ways that you can bring love back into your life. If you are searching for love there are a few things that I did to bring that about that I think might be useful for you. So here are the five steps that I took to bring love back into my life.
1. Forgiving and releasing your past.
I know for me my past was holding me back a lot. I believed that I was not good enough or worthy of love based on things that have happened in my past. I was ignoring all the growth and all the ways I have changed and still looking at what was happening then. Once I released that and learned that the present is different, I was able to see that I am worthy of love and I should be focusing on my life right now.
2. Appreciating what you have.
If you can’t be grateful for the things you have right now, asking for more won’t do you and good. If you want love, you need to look at what you have right now. Look at the people in your life and everything you have going for you right now and appreciate it. Appreciate what you are doing and the life you have built for yourself. That will make it easier for someone else to come in and appreciate it.
3. Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want.
When it comes to finding a relationship we often focus on the negative. We look for someone who does not have the things we don’t want. But if you step back and figure out what you do want, you can find someone who fits those characteristics. When you know what you want, it is easier for you to focus and find someone who meets those desires. Focusing on what you don’t want makes things a bit tricky because you aren’t focusing on the positive.
4. Fall in love with yourself.
Learn to love yourself. If you want someone to love you, you need to know what kind of love you deserve. You need to know your worth. The best way to do that is to fall in love with yourself. Treat yourself the way you would want someone else to treat you. Learn to value yourself so other people can do the same.
5. Be open to receive love.
Often times we are not open to actually receiving love. We don’t feel like we deserve it or we aren’t opening ourselves up to everyone. If you really want love, be open to it. Know what you deserve and let the right person come along and see that worth. Don’t close yourself off or stay guarded. Give yourself a chance to find the true love you are searching for and it will come.
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