Hey guys! Welcome back. I wanted to come on here today with another personal post. I just wanted to say that over the past few months I have been working to remove anything from my life that is not serving me. And I don’t mean to sound as though I think everything revolves around me. However, I do want to be much more intentional with the things and the people that I allow in my life. So I want to share with you how I have been doing that.
I started by acknowledging that I deserve more than what I was getting. And I know I still do deserve more, however, the process of letting things go is a long one for me. But knowing my self-worth has been a huge game changer for me. I am able to recognize what my life can be and who I can be and it’s a really great feeling. I understand the value of my life and the fact that it won’t last forever. So I should spend as much time as I can enjoying it and giving it all I can. I should show up and be authentic because that is what the world needs.
I also started saying no more. I started saying no to people and things. I don’t take anything that I don’t really need and I am more selective on the people I let in my life. Because as much as I want everyone to like me, I also know that I need to intentional with my time and my relationships. Because having too many will cause me to not be able to give that value to my other relationships. So I want to make sure that I am not spreading myself too thin.
Once I started figuring out what I needed to say no to, I was also able to see what I need to say yes to. Because there are times when I will need or want to say yes. As long as I know I am being intentional about that and not letting anything in that doesn’t add value in some way, I know that saying yes is a good thing. I just need to make sure that whatever I am saying yes to fits into my lifestyle and it’s something that is really going to bring me something that I can’t get anywhere else.
I have also learned that with this, consistency is key. Like most things in the beginning it’s more difficult. But if you keep pushing through and believe in yourself, you will get through it. Just be consistent and keep working hard. Only say yes to the things that are really going to bring value. Because if you say yes to everything that comes your way, the less value the really important things will have. So make sure you are optimizing your priorities and know what really matters. And be consistent in that flow of thought.
And the last thing that has really helped me with letting go is to let go of my limiting beliefs. From believing that I can’t do something to thinking that it won’t work no matter how hard I try, I try to work through these beliefs and ultimately overcome them. I knew that these limiting beliefs were holding me back and that I wasn’t doing myself any favors. So I have really worked to overcome these beliefs and have faith in the process. And it really has helped.
Thank you so much for stopping by! I hope you enjoyed this. Please like it if you did. Let us know in the comments how you are letting go of things that don’t serve you. Don’t forget to follow before you leave if you have not already and I hope to see you next time!