Hey guys! Welcome back. I hope you have had a great week so far! It is time once again for another monthly Q&A. These are some of my favorite posts to write and share because I love answering your questions. So be sure to leave any questions you have in the comments to be featured in the next Q&A! And now, let’s get into the questions!
1. What is your idea of perfect happiness?
I think my idea of perfect happiness would be not constantly worrying and being content with where I am and what I am doing. I just want a life that I am proud to live and do things that help other people. And I genuinely believe that I am headed in that direction, I’m just not there yet.
2. What is your greatest fear?
My greatest fear is definitely failure. That fear has help me back from doing so many things in my life because I don’t do things that I am not 100% sure I can succeed at. But I have been working on getting better at taking risks and doing things because I never know what will happen.
3. What is the trait that you dislike the most in yourself?
I don’t like that I’m not a very confident person. I don’t have the esteem that some people have and that is another thing that really sets me back. I’m not super comfortable with who I am and I always feel like I’m not living up to my fullest potential. But I’m working on it and with time it will get better.
4. How are you feeling right now?
Right now I am feeling great. A few hours ago I wasn’t feeling great. But I think overall I’m pretty content right now. I am making big plans, I have a job and a great boyfriend, and things are pretty steady right now. I appreciate that someone asked this question though. It means a lot.
5. What talent would you most like to have?
I really would like to be able to sing really well. Not even to do it professionally, but I think people who can sing are super cool. It’s just one of those talents that I really admire because music is such a huge part of my life. So if I could have any talent I would like to be able to sing.
6. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
These questions are all following a similar theme it seems. If I could change one thing about myself I guess I would have to go with my confidence again. Because I’m not confident I don’t have a lot of the other things that I want. So if I change that, I change the other things as well.
7. What do you consider to be your greatest achievement?
My greatest achievement is definitely graduating from college. It is something I wasn’t sure if I would ever get to do, so the fact that I got to go and graduate is a really big deal to me. I am super thankful that I got to experience it because it taught me so much and really helped me grow.
8. What do you value the most in your friendships?
I think the thing I value the most in my friendships is that we have things in common. Not just interests, but also in our values and personalities. I like being around people who are similar to me. Not even that we have the same views on things, but that we can respect each other and be kind.
9. What do you dislike the most in people?
I really have a hard time with people who are rude. I don’t think there are many reasons to be rude, especially if no one has done anything to deserve it. I also have a really hard time with people who don’t do anything and just take from other people. I think there is more to life than that.
10. How have you changed in the last five years?
I would like to think that I have changed a lot. I have definitely grown and become a better version of myself. I am much more open than I was before. I have more friends, I went to and graduated from college, and I found myself in a place that I really enjoy. So I’ve changed for the better in so many ways.
11. Do you like the person you are becoming?
I really do like the person that I am becoming. Sometimes I surprise myself with how far I have come and how much things have changed in just a short period of time. So I can only imagine how much things will continue to get better and the person I will be five years from now.
12. What do you do when you get a gut feeling about something?
I do my best to trust my gut. So when I get a gut feeling I usually follow whatever it is telling me because it’s usually not wrong. Sometimes it’s difficult to follow my gut or I know what it is telling me to do won’t be easy, but I believe if it’s in my gut that it’s there for a reason and I should listen to it.
13. If you get married will you take your husband’s last name?
I fully intend to.
14. What is your biggest challenge in the mornings?
I think this is a really interesting question because I always kind of thought the answer was the same for everyone. My biggest challenge in the morning is getting up. Let me know your answers in the comments.
15. What is the next biggest step in your life?
I think this would be a good question to end on. The next biggest step in my life that I am planning is moving. And hopefully it will happen soon. Other things might happen, but this is the only thing I am planning right now.
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