Hey guys! Welcome back. I hope you are having a great weekend. My week was pretty busy as I get ready to start making headway on a new chapter of my life and this weekend is really no different. But as I get ready to embark on this new journey it had me thinking a lot about boundaries and reflecting on the boundaries I have and ones I may need to set. So I wanted to share some of the things I think deserve boundaries in all of our lives no matter where we are and what we are doing. Hopefully this will help you see if there are things you may like to put some boundaries on in your own life. And with that, here are some things that I believe deserve boundaries in our lives.
Time is one of the most valuable things we have and it’s also one of the most fleeting. So when it comes to things that deserve boundaries, time is at the top of my life. I like to think that I’m pretty good with time management and I’m also flexible enough that if something comes up it’s not too much of an issue. But I really think that when it comes to our time, how we spend it, and who we spend it with is important. And now that I am adding a major addition to my life in terms of something that will take up quite a bit of time, I am trying to figure out my schedule and the time I will have.
If we aren’t meeting our most basic needs as human beings, we can’t really thrive in the same way as we would if they were being met. So when it comes to what you need and how you choose to get those needs met it’s important to remember that we should surround ourselves with people who will lift us up and we should be doing things that help us meet those needs. We shouldn’t allow anyone or anything into our lives that prevent us from having those needs met and making sure that we are prioritizing ourselves first.
What We Share.
We all have our own individual lives. We all have different things going on. We all have our own wants and needs. We are all unique in the way we live and the choices we make. Because of that, we don’t have to share everything. Even if it’s your best friend or your greatest confidant, you don’t have to share everything. In fact, you don’t have to share anything you aren’t comfortable with sharing. People don’t need to know 100% of your business and what you are doing and if they can’t respect your boundaries, they don’t need to be in your life.
It’s really great to have an open-mind and allow others to live freely. However, one thing I believe is very important is that we should first all have values. Second, we should hold on to those values and not allow anyone to try to take them from us. Everyone has their own values and what they choose to live by and that’s great. But when it comes to who you are and staying true to yourself it’s really important to hold on to your beliefs and values. It’s really important to live your life in a way that you are the most comfortable.
Emotions are tricky because while everyone has them, we all express them very differently. It doesn’t mean that one person’s feelings are any more important or validated than another’s, but it does help us understand that we are getting different sides of everyone. So we should protect our emotions and make sure that we are setting boundaries to protect our own emotions without making someone else feel like their emotions are less important. We just need to make sure that we are taking care of our emotional well-being so we can be there for others.
And those are some of the things I believe we should all have pretty clear boundaries on. Boundaries are important and they are healthy. Especially with the people we allow into our lives. Just make sure you are clear on what your boundaries are. Thank you so much for stopping by! I really hope you find this helpful. Please like it if you did. Let us know in the comments if there are any boundaries you think everyone should have! Don’t forget to follow before you leave if you have not already and I hope to see you next time!